“Good job” isn’t all that good

I’m trying to work on how I give thanks to those around me. I feel like I’m pretty good about giving frequent thanks when it’s appropriate, but I’ve realized (in part from books like Thanks for the Feedback, and in part from other conversations) that my “thanks” isn’t all that good.

It’s not that giving a sincere “thank you” is a problem, but just that appreciation could be much more effective with just a bit…