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Offer pain when it’s necessary

Mickey Mellen
1 min readJan 15, 2025

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It’s often true that pain can make you a better person. Even with your body, broken bones end up stronger than they were before the break (at least for a while).

However, sometimes intentional pain can be a good thing. In his book “ Secret Tradecraft of Elite Advisors “, David C. Baker explains how professionals can be like physicians, saying:

I want you to be like the physician who (hesitantly) hurts patients in pursuit of making them well. I don’t want you to be the money-grubbing, power-loving consultant who wants adoring followers.

Or, as I’ve heard elsewhere, “ surgery is simply hurting your body in a very specific way “.

In Baker’s case, he was sharing how professionals need to push hard in order to help their clients succeed. Strategies need to be set, tactics need to change, and you’ve got to work hard. The end result will be a successful engagement, even if the middle gets a bit painful.

Originally published at https://www.mickmel.com on January 15, 2025.

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Mickey Mellen
Mickey Mellen

Written by Mickey Mellen

I’m a cofounder of @GreenMellen, and I’m into WordPress, blogging and seo. Love my two girls, gadgets, Google Earth, and I try to run when I can.

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